The Importance of Windows and Mirrors in a Child's Home Library
I first came across the terms windows and mirrors during my homeschool journey. The further I dive deeper into the world of children’s literature, the more I love the perspective of having "windows" and "mirrors" in our home—not physical windows and mirrors, but metaphorical ones. They are perspectives through which children view the world—mirrors allow them to see themselves reflected in the stories they read, while windows give them a glimpse into the lives of others. A diverse and inclusive home library can provide both these essential viewpoints while broadening a child's understanding and acceptance of the world.
Mirrors in Children's Literature
Books serve as mirrors when they allow children to see their own experiences, cultures, and identities reflected in the narratives. When a child reads a book that mirrors their own life, it affirms their existence, value, and self-esteem. It shows them that their lives matter and their experiences are worthy of being told and shared. It's essential for children to see characters who look, live, and feel like them. It promotes a sense of belonging and helps them understand their place in the world.
Windows in Children's Literature
On the other hand, books serve as windows when they offer children a glimpse into the lives of others – those who are different from them in terms of race, culture, religion, socio-economic status, or life experiences. When a child reads a book that provides a window into different lives, they gain empathy and understanding. They learn to appreciate diversity and to respect differences. They are exposed to various perspectives, experiences, and cultures, which can foster a sense of curiosity and openness towards others.
Creating a Balanced Home Library
In creating a child's home library, it's essential to balance windows and mirrors. Too many mirrors, and the child may become limited, not realizing the world's beautiful diversity. Too many windows can cause the child to feel alienated, not seeing their own experiences validated in the literature. A balanced home library includes books from various genres, cultures, and perspectives. It includes books that challenge stereotypes and promote understanding. It is a tool for parents and educators to foster a child's love for reading while nurturing their empathy, curiosity, and sense of self.
A well-rounded home library should provide a balance of both, reflecting the diversity of the world we live in. As parents and educators, we should strive to create inclusive and enriching environments for our children, empowering them to grow into empathetic and understanding individuals.
love & light,
Jalesa - Founder & Curator of Tyrannosaurus Tot